Nevertheless, there is another sexual dysfunction that can be considered as upsetting as premature ejaculation, and that would be exactly its opposite – delayed ejaculation, also known as retarded ejaculation.

In simple terms, this male sexual disorder makes a guy that is completely aroused, with his tool hard rock, unable to ejaculate no matter how much would intercourse continue. To make the proof that is not the partner responsible for this, we should state that delayed ejaculation manifests regardless the context, meaning even with self pleasuring.

Most couples eventually end the lovemaking session without him being satisfied while others can continue for up to 30 or even 45 minutes, a point when he will eventually reach climax, obviously with excruciating efforts.

Like with any other penis health related issue, the causes of retarded ejaculation can be either physical or psychological. Among the biological ones we can name the administration of specific drugs affecting sexuality , like Guanethidine, Prozac or Mellaril, who have such effects on a male's reproductive system, or, even worse, an affection of the nervous system. Any nerve damage or problem on this level can seriously harden ejaculation.

As for the psychological causes, these seem to be more numerous and generally imply previous negative experiences, like illicit sex, having an affair, being caught while masturbating. Religious men, who were thought to look at sex as to something sinful, also have ejaculatory problems. But more about such triggers can be learned when discussing with a sex therapist.

Needless to develop, putting this diagnostic and performing the necessary tests and analyzes can only be done by a doctor, so you should know that postponing an appointment will take you nowhere. If you are experiencing this problem, and you have convinced yourself so far that it is not the partner the one to blame, you need to seek medical advice. It would be no point in taking lots of male enhancement pills and exhausting both yourself and your woman with long lasting lovemaking sessions just to prove yourself you can finalize, because chances are you will not be able.

Finally yet importantly, you should know that there are different types of doctors, with different specializations, that can give you an exam, depending on how delayed ejaculation manifests to you, like an urologist if you have never ejaculated regardless the stimulation source or a therapist if you cannot reach climax but in particular circumstances.