How Do You Know If She Is Faking It?
The first thing you might read in a magazine dedicated to men is that a man uses rather primitive old-fashioned methods to find out if his partner
is faking her orgasms. Men tend to believe that the first and the most important argument that a woman is ‘false’ in bed is the lack of humidity.
The truth is women can mime pretty well an orgasm if they are not humid enough, because all the yelling and the screaming are very real, because it hurts.
If a woman is not ‘wet’, she won’t ever feel pleasure and surely you will also figure that out. Moreover, men tend to ‘take the matter into their own hands’,
better said, to use their hand to see if there are into the desert or if they’ve reached some ‘wet area’. Oh, well, we haven’t reached that point where we
can have sex at the distance, and the hand isn’t the only one that can work as a barometer.
The truth is that it is somehow difficult to find out if your partner is faking her orgasms or not. But if you are really interested, you could find out.
All the signs of excitement could be present. Her nipples can be hard, she can be a little reddish, she might be ‘flooded’, but yet she may not reach an orgasm.
The moment after the ‘failed sexual act’ is very enlightening in this matter. So, if she doesn’t need a couple of minutes to get back on the ground, then you
should be suspicious. If she hurries to take a shower or runs into the kitchen to smoke a cigarette, it is very likely she didn’t come. Theoretically, her look
should be a lost one and she should wait a couple of minutes until she is capable of doing or thinking about anything else.
If you think your partner is faking it or that she has faked her orgasms, you should talk to her. The worse decision you could make is to ask her directly:
‘did you come?’ Give her a little time and choose a less sexual moment when you can tell her your concern. Don’t feel offended by the fact that she might
have faked it.
There are numerous reasons for which she has chosen to trick you. Maybe she was just tired and she wanted to encourage you to come faster, to keep your pride intact.
A more realistic reason could be the pressure that weights upon our shoulders.
With all the feminine emancipation, independence and reaffirmation of our sexuality, it is considered that we should have an orgasm at every hour of the day and of
the night, with anyone. And if possible, to have multiple orgasms. Ok, out mentalities have changed, our inhibitions don’t stop us anymore to scream of pleasure,
but our anatomy hasn’t changed much, even though women magazines want to contradict us.
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